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The World is..





So, I've finally started (and I could not have picked a worse or busier time to do so) reading Thomas L. Friedman's 'The World is Flat'.

I'll let you know how this turns out. Once I'm done. It will probably take a very long time though- don't wait on it.
But the point of this post being, 
has anyone already read it? 
Share a review if you have.
(just this thing I've started doing.)
The only reason I bought this book (yeah! I bought it!) was because I saw it lying on the bookshelf in my sister's house in Hyderabad and was instantly intrigued.
I'm guessing by the sheer size of a compilation of words titled by a a well known olden day myth- now scientifically proven wrong!
He must have something interesting to say.

A good year

A good year, indeed! And it ain't over yet!
Facebook actually has an application I felt like accepting!!!
It's a collage of random status updates through the year gone by.
Awesome Idea!


Living it.


So much to do!
So much to see!
So many plans!
Time just doesn't seem enough.
And it doesn't help to be someone who values the hours she lazes around as well.
Can't function without those, sorry!
My point being-
with all the Christmas season hullabaloo and College submissions being fired at us left, right and center, it's going to be a while until I post a decent blog...
But I'll keep up with my random postings of the things(links/videos/pictures/yada yada) that I like and I think you should see! :)
Also, just till I detail it out in a post, you should know my trip to the south was awesome!
Apart from some very "fun" moments... It was a lovely learning experience...
Can't wait for the time we're free enough to just pack our bags and travel around the country! Bit by bit of course, but as much as I've seen, which is quite a decent amount, I'm thoroughly convinced it's barely scratching the surface...
So, yeah! 
Until soon.

Life is in the living! Loving the living!

        

Travel Tales


So, I'm leaving for our college study tour tomorrow. Destination: Pondicherry. Auroville, more precisely. There may be a stop at Mahabalipuram too. But, details aren't completely clear about the itinerary. (I missed the briefing!) Anyway, my point is, I'm excited!
It's a quick trip, quicker than we'd have liked. But one that I'm really looking forward to for many reasons.
I generally love travelling, seeing new things. 
I kind of regret not having documented my (not superbly extensive; but pretty far out) travels in the past. But, it's cool. I've resolved to, here on out. Especially since I love, so much, to travel through photographs my friends take or stories they've written of places they've seen that I haven't crossed off my list(s) yet. And since I love photography (shutterbug Dave's paparazzi pal. Although, I'm sure he'd prefer- protégé!) and I love to write, it's the least I could/ should do!
Like Dave and I discussed- Traveloguers we must be!
So I'm starting with this particular trip.
I figured it would be a good idea to do some background research on the place we're headed to.
And boy(and girl!:P), was I right! I'm so glad I looked into the origin of and philosophy behind Auroville.
It's just made me all the more enthusiastic about experiencing it. 
(Some information is stolen off  http://www.auroville.org - which serves well, for a taste of things to expect.)

What is Auroville?

Auroville is a universal township in the making for a population of up to 50,000 people from around the world.

How did Auroville begin?

The concept of Auroville - an ideal township devoted to an experiment in human unity - came to the Mother as early as the 1930s. In the mid 1960s the Sri Aurobindo Society in Pondicherry proposed to Her that such a township should be started. She gave her blessings. The concept was then put before the Govt. of India, who gave their backing and took it to the General Assembly of UNESCO. In 1966 UNESCO passed a unanimous resolution commending it as a project of importance to the future of humanity, thereby giving their full encouragement.

Why Auroville?

The purpose of Auroville is to realise human unity – in diversity. Today Auroville is recognised as the first and only internationally endorsed ongoing experiment in human unity and transformation of consciousness, also concerned with - and practically researching into - sustainable living and the future culturalenvironmental, social and spiritual needs of mankind.


Now this, I think, is brilliant! That there is an initiative of this kind being made anywhere in the world, even more amazingly in our own country, just gives that feeling of hopelessness that sometimes weighs hearts down a kick in the behind. They call it an experiment in a laboratory of evolution. And experiencing this strange science first hand thrills me! We talk, so often, about being the same beneath all our differences. I can't wait to see the practical functioning of this, sometimes seemingly too good to be true, school of thought and learn what it entails. That, I'll include in a post on our return. So, until then, I fare thee well. Happy journeying through the next week!


Thought for the day.

I caught myself using it, and then started thinking about it and finally concluded-
I dislike the word "overachiever".
It's almost derogatory.
And really, why should there be  a limit even, to what a person can achieve!
So, Go for it I say...
And forget that...



;]

The Truth!

Haha! Love it!
:)
Why do we voluntarily sign up for these things!?!
Theres a reason 1,2,3 & 4 top this list!! 
Word.

Our Time.


With every passing day I believe even more firmly that it is so important to live in the moment!
The fragility of this life overwhelms me!
There's no telling what will happen, where, when, how or, most irritatingly- WHY!
But one thing's for certain-
We can spend our minutes meticulously planning our moves,
but life- with its strange sense of humour- will not stop pulling the surprises (good or bad) it's kept in store for us.
I just know this-
(and I don't care how many time's it's been said before, because I'm still going to say it now! For me!)
It's time to pay attention. 
It's time to be happy to be alive.
It's time to be thankful for the friends and family that I have.
It's time to stop taking things for granted.
It's time to live the moment (this very one!- with words flowing from my fingertips, being sung by my soul, with barely a thought!) 
and take it in
and love it.
It's time to value that very thing- time.
We have it! 
Don't clock it. Live it.
It's time!
Our time.







'The Catcher in the Rye' Effect

Catcher in the Rye- The title itself comes from the lead character, Holden Caulfield, mistakenly thinking that the Scottish Ballad, (or originally poem, “Comin’ thro’ the rye” by Robert Burns) in fact had lyrics which went “Should a body catch a body, coming through the rye”. Whereas, the actual lyrics were, “Should a body meet a body, coming through the rye.”





Written in the distinct dialect of the youth in America back in the 1950s, ‘The Catcher in the Rye’ by J.D. Salinger, captures life as seen and experienced by its anti-hero, Holden Caulfield.
The story is a narrative in the first person, as told by Holden himself. From start to finish it envelops the reader in the, more often than not, downs than ups of his existence.
It definitely does not make for very easy reading, but in a way that’s where I found the interest and intrigue to lie.
A young boy in conflict with practically every emotion he feels or person he encounters, endlessly searching for anything that isn’t, what he calls, “phony”.
This is an extremely thought-provoking read, and it makes you wonder about so many different things. Things we probably often think about, in a fleeting moment and then pay no attention to, offering our easy disregard instead.
It makes you wonder about ourselves- as human beings.
Are we all show-pieces, constantly show-casing ourselves?
Bordering on corny fakeness?
Are we all just living, unconsciously, for the occasional tender moments we spend with the people we truly love?
What do we really think of God and different religions? Really.
Holden, as he engages you in incidents that occur or have occurred as a result of the, often hasty, decisions he makes, opens a window to the world of a person on the verge of depression. It illustrates, in a way, the strength of our humaneness despite the state of mind or body we may be suffering through. And above all, it provides a sense of comfort to read and see that in all our loneliness and in all the rejection we may have to face from the world, there will still be people who care. Good people we love, who will love us back. We must always keep them close, because when our world falls apart, they hold the power to make it, if not entirely, partially whole again.

*Incidentally I’m on a John Mayer high (with the new album and all) and one of the latest songs by him is “war of my life”. It just struck a chord (literally) considering I was reading this particular book. Give it a listen! Good stuff.


One Month to go!

With a Month till Christmas, 
I can already feel the yuletide
cheer in the air!
Home today, in fact, was full of 
dance and song and laughter 
and carols at the piano!
Plans with the family and friends, 
coming in from cities and countries all over,
have started taking shape!
And it's so hard to concentrate on the things 
that really need to be done right now! 
(Design submissions to be precise)
I love Christmas!
There's an undeniable magic in the air, 
this time of year. 
Wherever you are. 
Whether its lying in the snow making 
snow-angels of a white Christmas, 
or on a beach somewhere on the Indian 
west-coast watching fireworks, 
or at home after mid-night mass- sipping wine 
and nibbling at multi-coloured marzipan or 
like the song says... Somewhere down in Africa. 
It's Christmas the world over.





Peace on earth! Good will to men!

I'm loving The Circle

Bon Jovi. Enough Said.


What would you say to me?
If I told you I had a dream
If I told you everything
Would you tell me to go back to sleep
Take a look in these tired eyes
They're coming back to life
I know I can change
Got hope in my veins
I'm telling you I ain't going back to the pain

Can I be happy now?
Can I let my breath out?
Let me believe
I'm building a dream
Don't try to drag me down
I just want to scream out loud
Can I be happy now?
Been down on my knees
I learned how to bleed
I'm turnin’ my world around

Can I be happy now?
Can I break free somehow?
I just want to live again
Love again
Pick my pride up off of the ground
I'm ready to pick a fight
Crawl out of the dark to shine a light
I ain't throwing stones
Got sins of my own
Ain't everybody just trying to find a way home?

Can I be happy now?
Can I let my breath out?
Let me believe
I'm building a dream
Don't try to drag me down
I just want to scream out loud
Can I be happy now?
Been down on my knees
I learned how to bleed
I'm turning my world around

You're born then you die
It’s all gone in a minute
I ain't looking back
Cause I don't want to miss it
You better live now
Cause no one's going to get out alive, alive

Can I be happy now?
Can I let my breath out?
Let me believe
I'm building a dream
Don't try to drag me down
I just want to scream out loud
Can I be happy now?
Been down on my knees
I learned how to bleed
I'm turning my world around
Can I be happy now?
Ohhhh
I'm turning my world around
Can I be happy now?

Tweetheart!


Haha! I just replied to a John Mayer tweet!...I called him a Rumour Starter! Cheap thrills at their best, huh!
So, I'm totally new to Twitter. 
I don't have much of an opinion about it actually. It's different with Facebook though; we've had time to bond.
I just recently logged on to Twitter (after ages) and the first thought through my mind was, 'ok. Glorified status updating and no one to care because I don't have too many followers.'  The few friends I was following before I never went back, a while ago, obviously didn't have much they wanted to tweet about... 
Then I decided to go against all my Bon Jovi principles and follow some celebrities. 
(We weren't born to follow right?...)
wrong!
Of course I'm like every other fan out there who wants the likes of John Mayer and Oprah on my list! duh!
Now what?
I suppose for celebrities its cool. Any publicity is good publicity right?
Especially if your fans think it's coming straight from your fingertips. That makes me wonder...
How many of those high rollers have friends or colleagues or employees tweeting for them? Sheesh... what suckers we are for the famous. I'm not going to be hypocritical and say.. yeah right! who gives a sh*t about John Mayer man! hello? I do! (He's very hot!)
And yes, my small little interesting-in-its-own-way life will still go on if he doesn't Re-tweet (I'm getting in with the lingo!) me... But you can be sure I'll be blogging Bazooka(with a capital "B")-like if he does! haha! watch for it! ;) until then, 
I must get back and pacify FB; I'm no two-timer you see... not unless... 
John?

Quoting the Great Fitzgerald




I just recently finished reading 'The Great Gatsby' by F. Scott. Fitzgerald and this was a read I thoroughly enjoyed, start to finish. For many reasons, this makes the list of books I'd recommend. [Not that I'm particularly fit to recommend because I'm definitely not the most seasoned reader around! But, I know what I like. And since I consider myself the average, ordinary, every-day book lover, I'm OK to recommend, I think! :)] so yeah! All that and, it happens to be considered one of the greatest American novels. Amongst those reasons are the fact that the story is pretty well drawn out, maybe a little too coincidental but it keeps you gripped all the same, the characters are very interestingly thought of and portrayed and above all, the English this book is written in is divine! A total treat to anyone who prefers calling a serviette a serviette, if you know what I mean. You probably don't [unless you've hung around me often enough]; but I'm not here to do a book review.
As I went through the story, I came across a whole lot of sentences or quotes or random statements or call-them-what-you-wills that Fitzgerald, I thought, did extremely well to concoct. The ease with which he creatively explains different circumstances and emotions his characters experience with immaculate articulate clarity had me wishing I could think straight enough to write like that someday. So, I felt the need to have these lines that meant something the moment I read them all in one place and so in my usual fashion, I made a list- a list of the ones I loved. Let them mean what they will to you! Here goes...


1] "I wanted to get out and walk eastward toward the park through the soft twilight, but each time I tried to go I became entangled in some wild, strident argument which pulled me back, as if with ropes, into my chair. Yet high over the city our line of yellow windows must have contributed their share of human secrecy to the casual watcher in the darkening streets, and I was him too, looking up and wondering. I was within and without, simultaneously enchanted and repelled by the inexhaustible variety of life."


2] "I was going to bring back all such things into my life and become again that most limited of all specialists, the 'well-rounded man.' this isn't just an epigram- life is much more successfully looked at from a single window, after all."


3] "Whenever you feel like criticizing any one," he told me, "just remember that all the people in this world haven't had the advantages that you've had."


4] "Gatsby turned out all right at the end; it is what preyed on Gatsby, what foul dust floated in the wake of his dreams that temporarily closed out my interest in the abortive sorrows and short-winded elations of men."


5] "In two weeks it'll be the longest day in the year....Do you always watch for the longest day of the year and then miss it? I always watch for the longest day in the year and then miss it."


6] "It takes two to make an accident."


7] "Everyone suspects himself of at least one of the cardinal virtues, and this is mine: I am one of the few honest people that I have ever known."


8] "It is invariably saddening to look through new eyes at things upon which you have expended your own powers of adjustment."


9] "Can't repeat the past?…Why of course you can!"


10] "There is no confusion like the confusion of a simple mind"


11] "Let us learn to show friendship for a man when he is alive and not after he is dead."


12] "Gatsby believed in the green light, the orgiastic future that year by year recedes before us. It eluded us then, but that's no matter- tomorrow we will run faster, stretch out our arms farther…And one fine morning-"


13] "So we beat on, boats against the current, borne back ceaselessly into the past."

What a Thriller!




Today, I’ve been moved.
And I blame it on ‘Human Nature’ and the King of Pop!
The experience I had today was unexpected, nostalgic, riveting and uplifting, for more than one reason.
The plan was to watch “THIS IS IT” with a bunch of friends, but because of a whole lot of miscommunication I reached early (earlier than them that is), already having missed the first 15 minutes, although I didn’t know it at the time and they reached much later and decided to not watch at all. At first I was ticked off. I declined their generous offers to buy me lunch and treat me to another show, all to make up (which I thought was extremely cute)! But then Jackson stepped in, took all of that and in his words “let it burn”!
So there I was embarking on a cinematic experience and musical journey, for the first time all alone and completely unprepared to be gripped by that ‘Dancing Machine’ who definitely knew a bit about living life ‘Off the wall’! Late as I was, my eyes were glued to that super-sized screen from the moment I entered. From the infectious rhythms and beats to the precise, intricate moves to the tunes we all know so well we could sing them in our sleep, this was an experience I wouldn’t trade for the world!
I guess being alone just helped me pay that much more attention to the film. As I watched, it hit me that this was all so real! He had no idea what fate had in store (or maybe he did), but there was certainly no chance this character in the movie was doctored in any way. There were no retakes. This was the King at work in a very real world. I watched in wonder, a humble genius doing what he did best. If anything epitomized a balance between razor-sharp perfectionism and a child-like innocence it was Michael Jackson.
The emotional attachment he had with his music, and message, came across crystal clear. He encouraged his troops to “nurture the music” and “feel the love”. He shows the world how in-touch with his child-like love of performance he was. His pureness of heart wore no disguise and was evident with how the words "God bless you" were second nature to him. One of my favourite scenes was the one in which he encouraged his lead, lady guitarist to reach for the highest notes she could and to own that moment because it was hers to shine! In true ‘Don’t stop till you get enough’ style.
I’m thoroughly glad that my first time watching a movie alone was this one in particular. It feels like homage was paid justly on my part to one of the greatest entertainers, and quite literally, movers and shakers of our time.
MJ the world was lucky to have you! And although your life’s pain was fuelled by ‘Tabloid Junkie’s that should’ve just ‘Beat it’, you left your mark. ‘It’s the falling in love’ that no one could stop. And you, through your music, performances, sheer scale of dreams and size of heart will continue to inspire us to ‘Keep the Faith’. ‘We just can’t stop loving you’ and will always ‘Remember the Time’ we were struck by a ‘Smooth Criminal’.
Invincible’.
And definitely, ‘Gone too Soon’.



 R.I.P. Michael.



Getting Away.

I don't normally do daily posts. I detest the thought of a virtual diary. It scares me. I value my privacy too much maybe. But I just feel like writing about the huge number of random things I did today. Only because they all cumulatively left me with a happy feeling from within at the days end.
It's been a brilliantly peaceful day. Well deserved I think as we've just been let go from the long tedious grasp of mid term assessments.
Today included things like,
~Sitting on a slide top in a play ground on a hill, overlooking a vast expanse of lake. Breeze blowing in my face and nothing but distant laughter teasing the dominant silence.
~Experiencing an infinity pool and the awe it invokes when I looked past it and took in the limitlessness that is nature.
~Rocking on a hammock, no where close to Goa, feeling the sun warm my face and dry my feet- wet from the pool I couldn't resist stepping into.
~Playing pool and darts, both after ages and laughing at how terrible my aim is.
~Listening to off-tune complemented by in-tune karaoke singing, for once not being the one yelling her lungs out without a care. 
~Driving fast on straight, clear, tunneled in green roads with the radio, wind and friendly chatter as my background music. 
~Laughing at petty tricks and cheating strategies that I was completely oblivious to, while playing some hilarious, impossible to win UNO games.
~ Jumping on a Trampoline after ages! haha! The joy of bouncing! Who said that was for kids? 
~Turning up at session (almost in time after all!) to watch it go off really well and smile-filled. Thank god for good friends and the SSU.
~Coming home to a Chinese food dinner that I was too late to stop from ordering and therefore had to inevitably eat! And I was pleasantly surprised to see that I had stayed off Chinese food long enough apparently, because it all just tasted so perfect today! the honey and Manchurian and noodles and everything else in an amalgamation that was some kind of heaven.
That was the day, and indeed, it was good.
To happy days!
Cheers.







Sleepless

Unsound sleep
A mark of dissatisfaction
A mind unwilling to rest
Sometimes, because it is aware of its incompetence when it comes to fulfilling the potential it knows it owns.
The over riding guilt jostles the thoughts and excuses and plans around, creating a ruckus, whipping what seems like all the contents of the brain, tangible or otherwise into random motions translated by every nerve and tendon into the perception of the self being rocked in a boat stuck in a whirlpool
Round and round
Nothing makes sense
So much want for peace
Such a longing for calm
And what lazy efforts all the same
The change has been a long time coming and THEY know its going to come
Who are THEY anyway
Restlessness consumes
Peace is known
Not often enough felt
The soundness of sleep is missed
The joy in purpose- hidden
The search persists
The self endures


A Woman's Question

(Something a friend posted, I read & loved!)



Do you know you have asked for the costliest thing
Ever made by the hand above?
A woman's heart, and a woman's life--
And a woman's wonderful love.

Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing
As a child might ask for a toy?
Demanding what others have died to win
With the reckless dash of a boy.

You have written my lesson of duty out,
Manlike, you have questioned me.
Now stand at the bars of my woman's soul
Until I shall question thee.

You require your mutton shall always be hot,
Your socks and your shirt be whole;
I require your heart be as true as God's stars
And as pure as His heaven your soul.

You require a cook for your mutton and beef,
I require a far greater thing;
A seamstress you're wanting for socks and shirts---
I look for a man and a king.

A king for the beautiful realm called Home,
And a man that his Maker, God,
Shall look upon as he did on the first
And say: "It is very good."

I am fair and young, but the rose may fade
From this soft young cheeck one day;
Will you love me then, 'mid the falling leaves
As you did 'mong the blossoms of May?

Is your heart an ocean so strong and true,
I may launch my all on its tide?
A loving woman finds heaven or hell
On the day she is made a bride.

I require all things that are grand and true,
All things that a man should be;
If you give this all, I would stake my life
To be all you demand of me.

If you cannot be this, a laundress and cook
You can hire and little to pay;
But a woman's heart and a woman's life
Are not to be won that way.


-Lena Lathrop

Frank Lloyd Wright: Inside out, Outside in.

Wikipedia would state and I quote:

“Frank Lloyd Wright (born Frank Lincoln Wright, June 8, 1867 – April 9, 1959) was an American architect, interior designer, writer and educator, who designed more than 1,000 projects, which resulted in more than 500 completed works. Wright promoted organic architecture (exemplified by Fallingwater), was a leader of the Prairie School movement of architecture (exemplified by the Robie House and the Westcott House), and developed the concept of the Usonian Home (exemplified by the Rosenbaum House).”

But that is Wikipedia. This is me.

I’ll start at the beginning, which in my world dates back to approximately two years ago. I was a young, enthusiastic, clueless fresher in a college for aspiring architects. At that point in time, Frank Lloyd Wright was a random name a couple of my professors threw at me and told me to research for a class assignment. Something I’d feel immense gratitude for in the future.

I can’t deny the possibility that the intrinsic connection I feel with Wright’s school of thought and works is a result of those many long hours and sleepless nights that went into the making of that particular presentation. Although, I’d rather that take a backseat to the fact that I was in fact intrigued by his philosophy with regard to architecture and design.

Frank Lloyd Wright lived an unconventional personal life; one stricken with much turmoil. He had been married three times and fathered seven children. He was famous for his unique dressing sense and often wore his own designs. He was also known to have picked up more than a speeding ticket or two in the swanky rides he owned back in the day. For a life as chaotic as his, Wright was one of the most structured thinkers, painstaking perfectionists and empathetic designers the world has ever seen.

Wright was influenced a great deal by Nature. He not only introduced, but forced the world to acknowledge the concept of Organic Architecture. The art of building while being sensitive to the surroundings thus producing designs which appeared to evolve from the relevant context. Maintaining the relationship between site, surrounding and needs of the client was key, underlining the essence of the concept as a whole. The free-flow of space from the interior to exterior and vice versa was a vital characteristic of these organic buildings. The structures seemed to stem from roots within the earth making it hard to tell immediately where the built form began and nature stopped.

“Fallingwater”, which was also regarded “The Building of the 20th Century”, epitomizes this philosophy. It is a private residence designed over a waterfall. A radical project; one which both, put and praised the possibilities of Organic Architecture on the world map.

Fallingwater, Bear Run, Pennsylvania,

Sensitivity to the needs of the common man was a trait Wright possessed that was evident with the evolution of his “Usonian Home” concept. The term ‘Usonian’ was coined by Frank Lloyd Wright himself and referred to the average American. Usionian homes were essentially well equipped, self sufficient and spacious homes that were affordable even for a middle class American citizen. Wright believed strongly that it was possible to provide the average, growing American family with a decent space to stay, at a reasonable rate and without compromising on some necessary amenities. This included an outdoor garden area as well as a terrace space.

He introduced the use of ‘open plans’, which are basically unobstructed spaces. On many occasions the living and dining/kitchen spaces were included in a single, large space. This when viewed from a domestic context, made the life of the everyday mother and housewife, back then, much easier as she could keep an eye on the ever active young of the house, without having to abandon her work in the kitchen. In my opinion, that is in-depth thought at it’s best.

This article is merely a snippet of, or rather, my take on, one of the most reputed architectural greats that ever lived. It doesn’t even begin to do justice to the man.

So, all those who read past this,

If you are a Frank Lloyd Wright admirer yourself- I hope you enjoyed the read and will forgive it’s shortcomings;

If you have never heard of him- I hope that you’re glad you now have.

__________________________

The Works

Guggenheim Museum, New York.

Rosenbaum Home, Florence, Alabama.